When it comes to dating, there is a stigma that comes along with being plus size: Bigger women only have a limited amount of options when it comes to men therefore they will settle for whatever is handed to them. Whether, you agree with the statement or not, it is something that can be seen in many displays of plus size women in movies and shows. You see the big girl vying over the love of the man that is painted as being “out of her league” and doing anything to get or to keep him. Although this display in the media is prevalent this isn’t really my reality. I have family members and friends that are of size and have never had to chase a man. I myself have been even slightly bigger than I am now yet I have not lacked catching the eye of eligible men. I would be naïve to believe that I would be on everyone’s list, just as not every guy is on mine and that is just a part of having a choice and preference. But when did your outward appearance ever determine the qualities you possess as a person?